Eugene Teo spent two decades pushing his body to extreme limits as a competitive bodybuilder. He would train for up to four hours a day and restrict his diet to an unyielding regime that left him dehydrated and malnourished. His obsession with size and definition consumed every aspect of his life, leading him to isolate himself from friends and loved ones.
As he grew older, however, Teo began to realize the true cost of his fixation on physical appearance. Simple tasks like walking or tying his shoes left him breathless and in pain. He was convinced that his body was broken, rather than working as it should be.
It wasn't until Teo's 30s that he made a radical change, shifting his focus from muscle size to mobility, power, and cardiovascular endurance. He added running, stretching, jumping, and cycling to his routine and began to prioritize his relationships and work over his body.
A decade on, Teo's physique has undergone a dramatic transformation. He weighs 15kg less than he did during his competitive days, but more importantly, he can move with greater ease and enjoy life without the burden of an obsessive focus on physical appearance.
"I used to be all about the aesthetics," Teo says. "But now I'm about functionality." He can run for miles without getting winded and jump high enough to play with his daughter. His body is no longer a project, but a tool that enables him to live life to the fullest.
Teo's journey serves as a powerful reminder that physical perfection is not the key to happiness or fulfillment. In fact, it can often be the root of our greatest unhappiness and discontentment. By letting go of his obsession with size and definition, Teo has discovered a new sense of purpose and joy that extends far beyond the mirror.
As he grew older, however, Teo began to realize the true cost of his fixation on physical appearance. Simple tasks like walking or tying his shoes left him breathless and in pain. He was convinced that his body was broken, rather than working as it should be.
It wasn't until Teo's 30s that he made a radical change, shifting his focus from muscle size to mobility, power, and cardiovascular endurance. He added running, stretching, jumping, and cycling to his routine and began to prioritize his relationships and work over his body.
A decade on, Teo's physique has undergone a dramatic transformation. He weighs 15kg less than he did during his competitive days, but more importantly, he can move with greater ease and enjoy life without the burden of an obsessive focus on physical appearance.
"I used to be all about the aesthetics," Teo says. "But now I'm about functionality." He can run for miles without getting winded and jump high enough to play with his daughter. His body is no longer a project, but a tool that enables him to live life to the fullest.
Teo's journey serves as a powerful reminder that physical perfection is not the key to happiness or fulfillment. In fact, it can often be the root of our greatest unhappiness and discontentment. By letting go of his obsession with size and definition, Teo has discovered a new sense of purpose and joy that extends far beyond the mirror.