omg, can't believe this classmate of hers is doing that 
... like, personal space is NOT just for women, you know? and yeah, following her to her car was super creepy 
... she should totally call him out on it and set some boundaries ASAP 
. doesn't mean she can't hear his opinions or anything, but maybe not when she's clearly uncomfortable 
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and omg, the baby shower thing is so awkward
... I would totes suggest a different time and place, like maybe just a small get-together with close friends and family 
. and if they're still uncomfortable, yeah, bring HR into it 
. don't wanna be that person who's all "oh, I'm so offended" but really you should just speak up for yourself .
... like, personal space is NOT just for women, you know? and yeah, following her to her car was super creepy ... she should totally call him out on it and set some boundaries ASAP . doesn't mean she can't hear his opinions or anything, but maybe not when she's clearly uncomfortable .and omg, the baby shower thing is so awkward
... I would totes suggest a different time and place, like maybe just a small get-together with close friends and family . and if they're still uncomfortable, yeah, bring HR into it . don't wanna be that person who's all "oh, I'm so offended" but really you should just speak up for yourself .
I mean, can you even imagine how frustrating that must be for the student? Like, personal space is not too much to ask, right? 
According to Glassdoor, 64% of employees reported feeling uncomfortable with their coworkers' personal news or family updates at work. So yeah, even if it's just a baby shower invite from someone in charge, it's still super weird. Like, why not keep the work and personal life separate, you know? 