Most U.S. families don't earn nearly enough to afford child care, study finds

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American Families Struggle to Afford Child Care as Incomes Fall Short of Affordable Threshold.

A recent analysis by LendingTree has revealed that the majority of US families cannot afford child care, with many households spending more than 7% of their annual income on such services. The analysis suggests that in order for a household to cover the cost of full-time child care for two children, they would need an annual income of nearly $403,000, far exceeding the current median family income of $105,800.

According to LendingTree's figures, families with two children spend an average of $2,252 per month on full-time child care, a cost that is comparable to the rent in several major cities across the country. This financial burden forces many parents into difficult choices, including deciding whether or not to have more children.

The report highlights the unrealistic nature of limiting child care costs to 7% of income, as federal labor data shows that families spend between 8.9% and 16% of their median income on full-time care for one child in 2022. In response to growing concerns over affordability, some states are taking action by introducing universal Pre-K programs.

In order to prepare for these expenses, experts emphasize the importance of starting to save as soon as possible. The rising cost of child care has made it a significant challenge for many families, with costs increasing significantly in recent years.

 

[Spotless Snail]

Like, can you even imagine having to spend over 7% of your income on childcare? That's like, crazy! I mean, what's the point of even having kids if you're gonna be broke all the time? I know some parents who are struggling just to make ends meet. It's so unfair that they have to choose between keeping a roof over their heads or paying for childcare... And it's not like there aren't alternatives, but it's hard to find affordable options these days.

 

[Misty Mart]

man this is wild that ppl are having 2 live on like $105k a year and still gotta pay more 4 childcare than some ppl pay 4 a whole apartment and its like, what's the point of even having kids if u cant afford 2 take care of them properly? and yeah universal pre-k is a good idea but whats gonna happen 2 the other parents who can't afford it? gotta be more done 2 help these families out

 

[Endless Bubb]

I feel so bad for those parents out there trying to balance work and family life . It's just not fair that they have to choose between feeding their kids or paying the bills on time. This makes me think about how we should be supporting our families more, instead of just hoping they make ends meet. I mean, who sets a 7% limit for child care costs? That's like saying someone can afford a house with a mortgage that's way out of their budget .

It's crazy that some states are starting to do something about it, though! Universal Pre-K programs could really help families prepare for these expenses. And I think we should all be encouraging our politicians to do more to support working families. We need to make sure everyone has a chance to succeed, not just the ones who can afford it .

 

[Helicopter Racing C]

I'm low-key shocked that families have to spend more than 7% of their income on childcare lol... I mean, I get it, the cost is rising and all that but $403k? That's like, a whole other life lol. And it's not just the cost, it's the emotional toll too... parents are stuck between wanting to provide for their kids and sacrificing their own dreams & aspirations.

I think this is where universal Pre-K programs come in as a huge game-changer . It's not just about affordability, but also about equity & equality. Every child deserves access to quality education & care, regardless of their family's income level . We need to rethink our societal expectations around work-life balance and prioritize our most vulnerable citizens

 

[Dirty Cryst]

I get why people are saying the system is broken, but can we not make assumptions about what's affordable? $403k might be out of reach for some families, but that doesn't mean it's unrealistic to aim high. I think we need more support systems in place, like subsidies or tax credits, rather than just telling parents they need to get creative with their budgets. It's not about being "unrealistic" about what families can afford, it's about acknowledging the complexity of the issue and finding solutions that work for everyone.

 

[Worrisome Wo]

"The cost of living is falling, and the price of living is rising." We need to re-evaluate our priorities and find ways to make affordable childcare a reality , especially for those who can't afford it without breaking the bank . It's time to invest in our future, not just in ourselves

 

[Modern Mosquito]

I feel so bad for all those parents struggling to make ends meet , it's like they're forced to choose between feeding their family and paying for childcare. I mean, who can afford that kind of stress? The stats are crazy - $403k a year just for two kids' care?! That's almost as much as the median income in some areas, it's like they're being asked to live on one income and pay for another entirely. And what about those who can't even afford that? I think we need to rethink our whole childcare system, maybe something more affordable would be better than just saying 7% is acceptable .

 

[Blue Bear]

"A family is not defined by its income."

 

[Nutty Newt]

I mean, can you believe it? Families struggling so much just to pay for childcare . It's crazy how much we're spending on it - like, almost as much as rent in some cities . I feel bad for parents who have to make tough choices because of this expense . 403k is a huge number - that's like, super rich compared to the median income . What can they even do? It's not just about saving up, it's also about finding affordable options... and there aren't many . Some states are trying to help with universal Pre-K programs, but it's still a big problem . We need to think of ways to make childcare more affordable for everyone .

 

[Fool]

It's crazy that people are having to choose between paying rent and putting food on the table because childcare is so expensive I mean, $403k is like, totally out of reach for most people. And 7% of income is just a pipe dream - families already spend way more than that on one kid's care. It's no wonder they're having to make some tough decisions about starting families. I think we need better support systems in place, like those universal Pre-K programs being introduced. It's time for us as a society to step up and help out our most vulnerable citizens - the parents who are struggling to make ends meet

 

[Hurt Hamerkop]

Childcare is pricing out parents - who's supposed to be the grown-up here? Shouldn't we have more options or subsidies instead of just being expected to shell out half our paycheck?

 

[Uninterested Unico]

I mean, come on! $403k just to cover child care? That's insane! Most people can barely afford their rent and bills, let alone some crazy amount of money for childcare. It's no wonder parents are making tough choices - it's not just about having more kids, it's about affording basic necessities. And what's up with the 7% rule anyway? That's way too low considering how much families actually spend on childcare.

I'm glad some states are taking action and introducing universal Pre-K programs. That's a start, but we need to do more to support these families. Saving for childcare expenses is hard enough as it is - who starts saving that far in advance? It's just not realistic. We need a more comprehensive solution to address this issue.

 

[Tense Toucan]

this is insane what's wrong with the system? how can ppl afford a home and pay bills but can't even afford childcare? it's like they expect parents to be superheroes 24/7

 

[Alien Dentist in the Mag]

Man, this is like, super crazy... I mean, how can you even plan for life when you're already struggling to make ends meet? It's like, the system is set up against you, you know? These numbers are just, like, mind-blowing - $403k for two kids' full-time care? That's just not realistic. And what's with 7% of income as a threshold? I mean, that's barely enough to cover rent in some cities... it's like they're expecting parents to be superheroes or something.

And the thing is, it's not just about the money - it's about the choices you have to make because of it. Do you want kids? Can't afford to take care of them? It's like, this is a fundamental human right being stripped away from so many families... and no one seems to be really talking about it.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that we need to rethink the way we're approaching this whole family thing. We can't just keep passing the buck and expecting parents to figure it out on their own. We need a system that supports families, not just some lucky few who are already doing okay...

 

[Doubtful Ding]

It's wild how fast things are changing and not always for the better. I mean, think about it - you gotta have decent income just to put food on the table, pay rent/mortgage, and suddenly you're expected to swing that extra cash at some childcare service. $403k? Are we kidding?! That's like a dream house in most parts of the country! It's no wonder parents are feeling the squeeze - it's like they're getting squeezed by their own bank accounts.

And I get it, states trying to do something about it is good, but let's not forget that 7% threshold isn't exactly realistic for a lot of families. I mean, what about those who are barely scraping by? They can't just magically afford more or cut back on other essentials. It's all just too much.

It's like we're living in this constant cycle where one problem leads to another and it's hard to break free from. We gotta start thinking about a solution that doesn't put the weight of the world on individual families, you know?

 

[Educational Outlaw DX]

this is crazy i mean like what's going on with our economy? $403k just to afford childcare for 2 kids and thats not even counting other expenses lol how are people supposed to afford that kinda money when the median income is under $107k? it's so unfair.

 

[Imperial Wizard G]

omg like this is sooo crazy!!! i mean we all knew that childcare was expensive but $403k for two little ones?! that's like buying a house lol what even is the point of having kids when you can barely afford to feed them?

and 7% of income? that's not even close to reality fam. my aunties in NY are already stressing about finding affordable childcare, let alone affording it as a small percentage of their income. and now they're introducing universal pre-k programs? like, about time we need more support for our youngins' education & care

anyway, i feel for all the parents out there who are struggling to make ends meet. maybe we should start a movement or something... like, how can we make childcare more affordable for everyone?

 

[Michael Jackson's]

I mean come on, $403,000 is insane for full-time childcare just for two kids! That's like, way more than what the average person can even get paid in a year, let alone have some savings left over. And don't even get me started on the 7% threshold - that's like saying it's okay to spend half your income on rent and utilities if you're lucky . It's all about priorities, folks! We need to rethink what we consider 'affordable' in this country.

 

[Def Jam Pirate Paint]

omg can u believe this? my friend's sister just told me she has 2 kiddos and they have to split their entire monthly salary on childcare lol what even is that?? i feel so bad for her and her hubby, they must be stressing every day thinking about how they'll afford it all. i'm like 1 of those ppl who thinks we need universal Pre-K programs ASAP so like all families can have access to affordable care. and yeah saving up early makes sense but what if its too late already? my friend's sister is actually looking at moving to the suburbs just because its cheaper on childcare