'Pain is a violent lover': Daisy Lafarge on the paintings she made when floored with agony

For Daisy Lafarge, creating art while confined to a floor by excruciating pain became an exercise in survival and self-expression.

In the midst of her debilitating Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, a condition that affects connective tissue, Lafarge found solace in painting using basic materials such as paper, paints, and kinesiology tape – an adhesive she uses to provide support to her joints. The unique remnants left behind by cutting the tape became decorative elements in her works.

Inspired by William Blake's "The Sick Rose" and 13th-century text "The Romance of the Rose," Lafarge crafted a poem cycle exploring courtly love and the characterisation of pain as an 'intoxicating, sometimes quite violent' lover. Her paintings – a diverse range of subjects including her cat Uisce, PlayStation controller, and unsettling images of enclosed gardens – coalesced into an allegorical story about relationships.

Lafarge's art is part of the exhibition We Contain Multitudes at Dundee Contemporary Arts Centre. This show brings together four artists with disabilities – Nnena Kalu, Jo Longhurst, Andrew Gannon, and Lafarge herself – each tackling the subject of disability in distinct ways.

Critics praise the show for challenging preconceptions about disabled artists, encouraging audiences to reevaluate assumptions. For Lafarge, however, exhibitions like We Contain Multitudes can also serve as a platform to raise awareness and promote inclusion.

A pressing concern for Lafarge is the need to address systemic barriers faced by people with disabilities. She believes that exhibitions should not only showcase art but also inspire meaningful change. "You don't have to be disabled to engage with this work," Lafarge says, diminishing the idea of her art being exclusively related to disability.

Lafarge's own experience with identity and disability has led her to question societal expectations around self-identification. She argues that people should not feel pressured to outwardly express their disability status, as it can be a personal choice.

Ultimately, Lafarge hopes that her paintings and poems will speak to people regardless of any physical ability – diminishing the notion that art related to disability is only for those who have experienced it directly.
 
I'm totally inspired by Daisy Lafarge's story 🤗. The way she uses pain as a creative outlet, turning something difficult into art, is so empowering 💪. I love how her paintings are not just about disability but also about relationships and self-expression 🎨. It's like, we don't have to be defined by our bodies, you know? 🌈

Anyway, you can check out the exhibition We Contain Multitudes at Dundee Contemporary Arts Centre... [https://www.dcaartscotland.com/what...artscotland.com/whats-on/contains-multitudes) ...it's a really cool show that challenges our assumptions about disability and art. Def worth a visit, imo 👍
 
she's so brave 💕... i mean, creating art while dealing with such chronic pain is already a huge accomplishment 🤯... what i love about her approach is how she's not just making art about being disabled, but also about the human experience 🌟... her message about not feeling pressured to share your disability status is so important 💖... we need more people like her who are using their platforms to promote inclusivity and understanding 🎨💬
 
Daisy's art is giving me all the feels 🤩🎨 I love how she uses her struggles with Ehlers-Danlos syndrome as a way to express herself creatively, and the fact that she's not making a big deal about being disabled in her art is so refreshing 💖. It's like, people should be able to enjoy art without it being just for them, you know? 🤷‍♀️ I'm definitely down to give her show a visit - I love how it's bringing together artists with disabilities and challenging those preconceptions about who gets to create and share their work 💪.
 
🌟 You know, I think this artist Daisy Lafarge is teaching us all about the power of creativity in the face of adversity 💪. Her experience with Ehlers-Danlos syndrome might be tough, but she's showing us that art can be a way to cope and even find beauty in pain 🎨. And what's more beautiful than breaking down barriers and challenging our assumptions? This exhibition is not just about disability, it's about human connection and the importance of empathy ❤️. We should all strive to create a world where people with disabilities feel seen, heard, and included, rather than having their art defined by their disability status 🌈. By sharing Lafarge's story, we're reminded that everyone has a unique perspective and contribution to offer – let's celebrate our differences and foster a culture of inclusivity 💖.
 
I mean, I love how she's turned what sounds like a never-ending nightmare into art 🤯. Like, pain is literally her muse or something. It's actually kinda inspiring how she's made this exercise in survival into a form of self-expression. I'm not gonna lie, the kinesiology tape thingy was a genius move 💡 - who knew it could be art?! The fact that exhibitions like this are bringing together artists with disabilities to challenge preconceptions is super important 🌈. It's about time we stopped assuming everyone has an idea what it's like to have Ehlers-Danlos syndrome... or any disability for that matter.
 
I'm loving this exhibit We Contain Multitudes 🌟! It's so powerful to see these artists pushing boundaries & challenging our perceptions about disability in the arts 🤯. I mean, Daisy Lafarge's story is really inspiring - she finds solace in art while dealing with this tough condition that affects her daily life 💔. Her use of kinesiology tape as a creative medium is genius 🎨!

What resonates with me is how she wants to break down the stigma around disability & art, & showcase that anyone can connect with this work regardless of their own experiences 💖. It's all about promoting inclusion & awareness - I think we can all learn from her perspective on this 🤝.

For me, it's not just about seeing art made by people with disabilities, but also understanding the systemic barriers they face 👊. We need more conversations like these to create meaningful change & inspire a more inclusive world 💪. Can't wait to see what other talented artists come forward!
 
🎨💡 I'm so inspired by Daisy Lafarge's story! It breaks my heart that she had to find solace in art due to her chronic pain, but at the same time, it's amazing how she turned something that was supposed to be a limitation into an opportunity for self-expression. 🤕 Her use of kinesiology tape as a material is genius, and I love how she incorporates those remnants into her artwork – it's like she's giving the beauty in pain its own voice. 💖 What I admire most about her art is that it doesn't just exist for people with disabilities; it's meant to be accessible to everyone. That resonates deeply with me – sometimes we forget that people's experiences and perspectives are not always defined by their abilities or disabilities. 🌈 We need more voices like Daisy Lafarge, encouraging us to look beyond our own limitations and engage with the world in a more inclusive way. 💕
 
It's pretty wild how this exhibition brings up the debate about inclusion in the arts 🤔. I mean, think about it - if we're gonna showcase artists with disabilities, we gotta also talk about the systemic barriers they face. It's like, we can't just create a platform for them to express themselves without acknowledging the obstacles that come with having a disability. That's like, the ultimate paradox of inclusivity 🤦‍♀️.

I'm reminded of the whole ' ableism' conversation - how our society is set up to prioritize productivity and functionality over people's needs. It's not just about giving people with disabilities a platform, we need to challenge those norms altogether 💪. We gotta ask ourselves, what does it mean to be included in the arts? Is it just about creating space for them, or is it about dismantling the barriers that keep them out in the first place?

Lafarge's art is all about questioning societal expectations and pushing boundaries - I love it! But we need more of that in our conversations around inclusion. We can't just focus on the individual artists without also talking about the broader systemic changes we need to make 💡.
 
You know, I was thinking about this artist Daisy Lafarge's work and how it made me think of all these other artists with disabilities doing amazing things... 💡 then I remembered when I saw an exhibition last year where a painter was using his wheelchair as part of the art installation 🚀 and it got me thinking about how people assume that disability is something to be pitied or seen as 'inspirational'. Like, we get it, life's tough for some folks, but let's not forget that disability is just one part of who someone is. I mean, I've seen some cool art pieces made by people with disabilities online and I'm like, "wow, this person has so much talent and stuff" 🤩 without even realizing that they're disabled until the artist themselves mentioned it... anyway, Lafarge's work makes me think that we should just focus on appreciating good art rather than worrying about who's behind the brush. Or in her case, who's holding the tape 😂
 
🤔 I was just thinking about my grandma's old piano at home. We never really got around to playing it, but sometimes when no one's looking, I'll sit and tickle the keys. The way the sound echoes through our empty house is still pretty cool. Anyway, back to Daisy Lafarge – her art is so captivating! 🎨 I love how she uses kinesiology tape as a creative element in her paintings. It's like she's using it to hold things together, just like life can be tough sometimes. And I'm with her on making exhibitions about disability more than just showcases for those who have experienced it – everyone deserves to feel included and inspired! 🌈
 
Ugh, can't even get excited about some artistic genius makin' something outta nothin' 🤯... I mean, poor thing has Ehlers-Danlos syndrome and gotta use kinesiology tape as adhesive? That's just a whole lotta extra stress, if u ask me 💔. And don't even get me started on the exhibition - it's all about challengin' preconceptions, but what about the actual challenges people with disabilities face in everyday life? 🤷‍♀️ Like, how many of us have a platform like this to address systemic barriers and promote inclusion? Not many, that's for sure. And Lafarge is right, by the way - it's not all about disability; her art should speak to everyone, regardless of ability or identity 💖. But, I mean... can we really expect people to be all open-minded and empathetic just 'cause some artist makes a few paintings? 🤷‍♂️
 
🤔 I mean, think about this... Daisy Lafarge's art isn't just about being disabled, it's about perspective. She's saying we need to look at things differently, from our own experiences, but also from outside in. Like, her paintings of enclosed gardens could be seen as a commentary on feeling trapped or limited by societal expectations. But what if they're actually meant to inspire us to break free? 🌸 It's all about redefining what we consider "art" and how it relates to disability. And I think that's kinda cool... 😎
 
This exhibition We Contain Multitudes is like, really cool 🤩. I mean, it's awesome to see artists with disabilities creating work that not only showcases their talents but also challenges societal norms. Daisy Lafarge's story is especially inspiring - I feel bad for her going through all that pain and still managing to create something beautiful 💔.

I think what I love most about this exhibition is that it's not just about disability, it's about human experience 🌎. These artists are showing us that art is for everyone, regardless of ability or identity. And, you know, exhibitions like these can spark meaningful conversations and inspire change 🔄. But, at the same time, I'm also thinking that maybe we need to be more careful not to tokenize people with disabilities 🤷‍♀️. We need to make sure that their art is being showcased in a way that's respectful and empowering, not just to raise awareness but to also create opportunities for meaningful engagement 📈.
 
I'm telling you, back in my day we didn't know much about disabilities, but seeing Daisy Lafarge's artwork, it just breaks my heart 💔. Her way of expressing herself despite being confined by her Ehlers-Danlos syndrome? Mind-blowing 🤯. I love how she uses kinesiology tape to create art – who knew something so utilitarian could be beautiful? 🎨

But what really gets me is her perspective on disability and identity. It's like, we should just accept people for who they are without having to label them with their condition 💖. I mean, can't we just focus on the art itself instead of making it all about the artist's disability? 🤷‍♀️

It's so refreshing to see exhibitions like We Contain Multitudes that bring together artists with disabilities and challenge our preconceptions. It's time for us to rethink how we approach inclusivity and accessibility, don't you think? 🤝
 
omg you guys think its cool to label ppl's art as 'disability art' like no lol what if ppl create amazing stuff without needing a disability? like i love daisy lafarge but lets be real her art was created because of her condition, not despite it. and the fact that she labels herself as disabled artist is kinda forced, like why do we need to do that? can't we just appreciate the art for what its worth? 🤷‍♀️💎
 
I love how this artist is turning pain into something beautiful 🎨💖. I mean, she's literally using tape as a material, can you even imagine doing that with one hand? 😲 And her paintings are so vivid and emotional, it's like you're right there in the enclosed garden with her 🌿.

But what really gets me is when she says we don't have to be disabled to engage with this work. That's so true! I think a lot of people get scared or uncomfortable talking about disabilities because they feel like they don't fit into that narrative, but Lafarge is showing us that it's okay to explore and express our own experiences 🤝.

It's also super inspiring to see her saying that art should inspire change, not just showcase disability. That's the kind of thinking we need more of in the world 💪. And I love how she's pushing back against the idea that people have to "be" disabled to create art about it – like, no way! Art is for everyone 🎭.
 
I'm so inspired by Daisy Lafarge's story 🙌. It's like she took all this pain and turned it into something beautiful... like a work of art 💖. I mean, who else would think to use kinesiology tape as a material for painting? Genius! And her message about not feeling pressured to label yourself is so on point 🤝. I'm loving the way she's redefining what art can be and how we view disability – it's all about empowerment and representation 💪. I just wish more people knew about artists like her, you know? It's time for us to rethink our assumptions about who makes art and why...
 
man i just saw this exhibition in my local arts centre and it was so powerful 🤯 daisy lafarge's artwork is like a punch to the gut - in the best way possible 💔 she's using her own experiences with ehlers-danlos syndrome to create these hauntingly beautiful pieces that explore what it means to be human. i love how she's subverting the idea that art about disability has to be "disabled" and instead making it for everyone 🌈 her use of kinesiology tape as a material is genius too - who knew it could be so pretty? 😂 anyway, this exhibition is definitely one to check out if you haven't seen it yet...
 
I'm loving this exhibition at Dundee Contemporary Arts Centre 🎨👏! It's so important to showcase artists with disabilities, we need more platforms like this one where they can share their perspectives and experiences 💖. I mean, I've never really thought about how art is created when you're living with chronic pain, but Daisy Lafarge's story is actually super inspiring 🤯. I love that she's using her art to challenge people's assumptions and promote inclusion – it's all about breaking down barriers and giving a voice to those who might not otherwise be heard 🗣️.
 
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