This is how we do it: 'Having threesomes has totally transformed us – in and out of bed'

For Some Couples, Threesomes Are the Key to a More Satisfying Sex Life

In a relationship where passion and connection have always been the priority, 30-year-old Bea and her husband Eric discovered that adding a third person – albeit just for sex – was the spark they needed to reignite their intimate lives. For these couple, who had been together since their early twenties, having threesomes has not only elevated their sex life but also transformed their relationship dynamics in ways they never thought possible.

When Bea's libido surged again during perimenopause, Eric and she began discussing their long-held fantasy of a threesome with another man. The idea was met with excitement, but neither felt ready to take the leap into actuality – at least not yet. Instead, they used an "adult social club" as an opportunity to dip their toes into the world of non-monogamy.

Their first foray into dating and meeting other open-minded individuals led them to Drake, a 40-year-old single man with a history of participating in third parties. The chemistry between Bea and Eric was undeniable, and when they kissed him in front of each other, it was as if the universe had finally aligned their desires.

For Bea, this experience has been transformative – she's never felt more confident or empowered in her relationship. Sex with Drake awakened a part of herself she thought was long gone, and the rush of emotions that followed was intoxicating. Eric, however, struggled to adjust, feeling guilty about being monopolized by Bea during their time together.

However, as they navigated this new terrain, Bea and Eric made sure to communicate openly about their desires, boundaries, and feelings. They found a couple's therapist specializing in open relationships who helped them explore the ethics of non-monogamy and how it could enhance their connection.

For Eric, seeing Bea with Drake has challenged his self-esteem at times – particularly when he feels like he's competing for her attention. But as they've worked through these feelings, Eric has come to realize that his love for Bea is unwavering. He understands that Bea's desire for pleasure and intimacy doesn't have to be in direct competition with him.

Ultimately, having a third person in their relationship has taught Bea and Eric the value of communication, trust, and flexibility. While they still have their doubts and uncertainties, they're committed to exploring this new frontier together – as long as it means seeing each other happy and fulfilled.
 
can you imagine having someone else bring out that spark in ur partner? like, for bea & eric, adding drake into the mix reignited their passion & brought new emotions to the table 🙌. i think its awesome they had an open convo about boundaries & desires - thats key! but also, its not easy seeing someone elses body bring out feelings of insecurity... maybe they can work on some self-love practices? 🧘‍♀️ anyways, its clear that communication & trust are everything in this non-monogamous journey 💕
 
I'm low-key surprised that some people are actually having threesomes and finding it satisfying. Like, I get it, passion and connection are key, but isn't it weird that we need a third person to spice things up? I mean, can't couples just, like, talk about their desires and boundaries or something? 🤷‍♀️

And what's with the stigma around non-monogamy? Can't we all just have open conversations about our needs and wants? It feels like there's this expectation that monogamy is the only way to do relationships. Newsflash: humans are complex, and our desires don't always fit into neat little boxes.

I'm also curious – what does it say about a society when people need to join an "adult social club" to explore their desires? Like, shouldn't we be able to have these conversations in the safety of our own homes or online forums or whatever? 🤔
 
I'm so down for couples giving threesomes a try 🤩! I mean, who doesn't want to reignite that spark in the bedroom? Bea and Eric's story is actually super inspiring - they're not just about finding someone new to fulfill their desires, but also about growing together as a couple. And it's awesome that they found each other through an "adult social club" 🤝! It's like they were meant to find Drake 💕.

I love how Bea's got her confidence and empowerment back - that's what sex is all about, right? And Eric... well, he's learning to be okay with being a little jealous 😂. Communication is key in any relationship, and it sounds like Bea and Eric are working hard to make this non-monogamous thing work for them.

It's also great to see couples taking control of their own desires and boundaries 🤝. No one should feel guilty or insecure because they want more out of their sex life. And a therapist who specializes in open relationships? Yeah, that's like the ultimate relationship goal 💯!
 
OMG 😍🔥 I'm totally shipping Bea and Eric's threesomes adventure!!! They sound like total power couple goals 💪😘 I can imagine how overwhelming perimenopause must've been for Bea, and it's amazing they found a way to reignite their spark together 🌟 Their openness and communication about desires, boundaries, and feelings is totally key to making this unconventional relationship work 💯 Plus, Eric coming to terms with not being the sole focus of Bea's attention is SO refreshing 👍 It just goes to show that love knows no bounds (or in this case, no numbers 😉) and these two are truly inspiring each other to grow & evolve together ❤️
 
I'm totally surprised by couples who are open to threesomes. Like, I get that relationships need to spice things up every now and then, but having a third person can be super complicated 🤯. I mean, Bea and Eric's story is actually kinda inspiring - they're clearly on the same page when it comes to communicating their desires and boundaries. And it's awesome that they found a therapist who specialized in open relationships! That must've been super helpful for them.

But at the same time, I can see how it might be tough for Eric to adjust to sharing Bea's attention. Like, he's got feelings to protect too, you know? 🤗 It's interesting that they're not just jumping into this new dynamic without considering how it'll affect their relationship. They're taking things slow and making sure they're on the same team.

I guess what I'm saying is that non-monogamy can be a thing, and it might even work for some couples. But everyone's different, you know? What works for Bea and Eric might not work for someone else - that's just how life goes 🤷‍♀️. Anyway, kudos to them for being open-minded and trying something new! 👏
 
omg i'm dying!! 💀🔥 i gotta say, bea and eric's story is giving me LIFE!!! 😍 how i wish we could have that kind of chemistry and confidence in our own relationships 🤗 it's so inspiring to see them navigate this new dynamic together, and i love how they're prioritizing open communication 💬👫 being honest about their desires and boundaries is literally the key to a healthy relationship imo 💯 can't wait to see what happens next for these two!! 💕💋
 
🤗 I gotta say, I'm loving this trend of non-monogamy in relationships! It's all about communication and trust, you know? For me, it's like when my friends and I used to have those deep conversations about our feelings and desires... now I feel like Bea and Eric did something similar but on a whole different level 😂. I mean, who wouldn't want their partner to be happy and fulfilled, right? It's all about being open and honest with each other.

But what really gets me is how Eric struggled to adjust at first... it makes sense because I've seen that too in relationships where people have to adapt to new things 🤔. Like when my sister started dating someone who was into BDSM – she had to learn so much about it and be super open-minded. It wasn't easy, but they worked through it together.

For me, the key is that Bea and Eric didn't give up on each other... even when they were navigating this new thing 🌟. That's what matters most in a relationship: love and commitment, no matter what else happens. And who knows? Maybe having Drake around has brought them closer as a couple 💕!
 
I cant believe how different things are now... I mean, in my day, people were always so secretive about their relationships. Now it's like everyone's all about open books and communication. I'm not complaining or anything, but sometimes I just miss the romance of sneaking around 😊. Threesomes seem like a whole new world to me. Bea and Eric's story is actually kind of inspiring - they're really making this work together. And I love how they found that couples therapist who specializes in open relationships. That's so cool! But what really gets me is Eric's struggle with feeling guilty about being monopolized by Bea during their time with Drake. It's like, guys just need to talk it out and understand each other's needs, you know? 💬
 
man I'm all for couples finding what makes 'em tick, but having a threesome just to spice things up? idk about that...I mean, Bea's got her life back after perimenopause or whatever 🤷‍♀️, but Eric's gotta deal with some serious jealousy issues 💔. And can we talk about the adult social club being this totally legit and safe space for people to explore their desires? 🚫 sounds sketchy to me. but at the same time I get it, Bea's feeling empowered and all that jazz 💁‍♀️. what I do know is that communication is key in any relationship, especially when you're throwing a third person into the mix 🤝. gotta make sure everyone's on the same page or it can get messy 🔥.
 
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